Dear David

Birthday: 28.05.46

19:05 (da war wohl doppelte Sommerzeit??)

Ahlen/Westfalen/D

FRAGE:

what can I do to get out of me being stuck?

can I DO anything - or just wait?

Thanks, Danke, Gracias********

Dear David

You feel stuck? That should be putting it very mildly. Astrologically you are in a mess, my friend.

We never met personally but your reputation as international charmeur and hippieplayboy has reached me of course. I have seen you on photos with women who would make Scarlett Johannson want to hide in the bathroom. And cry with envy. How is he doing it, I asked myself? What ist the secret of his success? So, doing your chart is interesting. More than that, it is exciting. For me as an astrologer it is like hunting down the abonibal snowman, the Yeti. If you excuse the metaphore.

So. How IS he doing it? Scorpio Rising and Moon in Taurus. You ooze sex out of every pore and with your Pluto/Mars Conunction in Leo you can deliver the goods you are advertising. Oh my God. The Gemini Sun conjuncting Mercury and trining a romantic Neptune it should make it easy as pie to charm the objects of your desire till they are like pudding in your hands. You are witty, smart, seductive and very charismatic. But it does not stop there. No no no. Neptun is squaring a most romantic Venus in Cancer in the 8th house, which makes you a tragic-romantic Tantrika, a believer in true love and the transforming powers of sex. And a kind and compassionate person. You treat your women very well. Unless they wish to be treated differently. Don Juan incarnate? Maybe, but I rather see you as a mix of Lord Byron and the Mad Hatter from Alice in Wonderland.

So this is all fine and dandy. You should have a great life and lots of fun. You should drink Champagne with pretty girls and eat sliced melons and parma ham from their tanned derrieres. What is going wrong?

A lot. It is more than understandable that you don’t feel like a merry little easter bunny.

Pluto, the Lord of the Underworld and the Ruler of Darkness is opposing your supersensitive and emphatic Venus in sweet Cancer. No idea if a woman is involved in the whole affair but with this opposition it might very well be the case. I would not be amazed the least. Not a pretty transit. Then Saturn is also moving into a square with poor Venus. These transits feel a little bit as if a lover of Mozart Arias would have to listen to Rammstein for 24 hours a day.

Then Chiron and Neptun are messing around with your IC, the deepest and most intimate part of your chart. That could cause more insecurities about your home, maybe your real home, the place where you live or your sense of being at home. And it can make you very sensitive.

Chiron has alread entered the 4th House, also not a particulary calming and relaxing situation. It could be about moving house, it could be again matters of feeling not safe and secure on the inside. Next comes a very tense Uranus-Saturn Opposition. You are driving a Ferrari but unfortunately with the breakes on. Lots of effort, little result.

We are not done yet. At the same time Pluto is squaring Neptune, causing more sense of disillusionement, more broken dreams. What I perceive as the overall energy of all these transits is that the emotional issues and the threatened security create the feeling of paralysis and being stuck. What worked before does not work anymore and the new tools have not manifested yet.

„Should I wait or should I act“ is maybe not necessarily a good question when confronted with so many polarities. The mind circles around it but the question misses the point. It will bring you only deeper into tension and into the dynamic and the dilemma of stuckness. I would say: Don’t wait, don’t act – stay still and enjoy the drama. With so many aspects from outer planets you can not consciously change the situation. The situation will change itself. The law of will power does not apply anymore. But the law of love and magic does. Stay fluent. Be like water.

You are not saying how you actually feel, but I would assume that “being stuck“ might be an understatement . You are getting it literally from left right and center. You are bombarded by dynamics stronger than a Tornado in Kansas. I hate to say it but there is no easy way out, no magic trick. The gods don’t take bribes, but they accept sacrifices. But don’t forget. Every cosmic drama of this dimension has in the end a good intention. It is about transformation on a very deep level. It might be your private own baptism of fire. The good news is that you have the emotional and spiritual ressources to hold your ground. I think you will rise like Phoenix from the ashes. But it will take some time and some nerves.

And most important of all. I would bet my last pair of Vivienne Westwood panties on this: You will always be loved. You are kissed by the gods.